Session 1: Our God is a Loving God
Objectives:
By the end of this
session participants should be able to . . .
1.
Define God as the One who loves all people and who teaches us to love Him
and each other.
2.
List particular ways God shows His love for us in our daily lives.
3.
Name at least three places in the Bible when God showed His love for people.
Useful
Texts:
Look
through St. Paul’s definition of love in 1 Corinthian 13:4-8a. Read through
it a few times, replacing the word “love” with “God” and then “I”. Reflect
on how God truly does love in these ways and how, while we are called to love
in the same way, often we fall short.
Also:
see outlines
Materials:
A:
Easy care plants (one per child), plant pots, planting soil
B:
Medium-sixed boxes, magazines, construction paper, glue/tape, rocks (one per
child) that they can hold comfortable in one hand, journals,
Both:
Paints, glue, sea shells, etc. to decorate pots and/or rocks, bibles.
Procedure:
Introduction
A:
Who are the People Who Love Us?
Say,
“For the next (period of time of program) we are going to talk about all the
persons with whom we have special relationships and how our relationships
with them effect choices we make in our life.”
Get
a big piece of butcher paper or newsprint. Write on the top of the paper “Who
are the people who love us?” Brainstorm with the students all the people they
can think of who love them. [Parents, grandparents, friends, God, teachers,
etc.]
When
they have exhausted all possible answers ask, “What is it about how these
people treat us, that makes us think they love us?” [They take care of us,
feed us, buy us clothes to wear, correct us when we are wrong, protect us,
etc.]
Exploration:
God’s love is all around us
If
they haven’t mentioned Him yet, ask “Does God love us?[Yes.] Why do you think
so?” [He made us, makes food grow for us to eat, etc.]
Read
the attached Parable of the Prodigal Son and discuss the questions at the
bottom of the sheet.
Say,
“The entire Bible is full of examples of God’s love for us His creatures.
We’re going to have a kind of scavenger hunt now to learn about some more
of the ways God shows us His love for us.” Split participants into groups
of 3 or 4. Give each group a set of texts. Be prepared to give a quick lesson
on how to look things up in the Bible.
Say,
“In your group read through your set of readings. For each reading write down
one or two things it says about the way God shows His love for us.” Next to
each reading is listed one possible answer.
A.
Genesis 2:4-24 [God created us and gave us each other to help us through life];
Psalm 104 [God created the whole world in such a way that it can give us what
we need.]
B.
Exodus 1:1-14; 6:1-8 [God is the One who saves us and calls us His own.] ,
Psalm 30 [God helps us when we ask Him.]
C.
Matt 18:10-14 [God will seek us out if we stray from Him] ; Psalm 23 [God
is there helping and protecting us when things get hard.]
D.
Matt 18:21-35 [God is forgiving to us as much as we are forgiving to others.]
; Luke 13:1-9 [God, through Jesus, warns us what will happen if we do not
lived good and godly lives], Psalm 32 [When I admit when I sin and do wrong,
God forgives me.]
Say,
“Now think about all the things we do in church. What are some ways that the
sacraments and other liturgical services show God’s love for us.” [Baptism
and Communion let us be close to Him, Confession helps us get back on track
when we do the wrong thing, ]
Say,
“Close your eyes. Lastly, think about your life and the world: all the special
people in it, all the things you do from day to day, and the things that happen
to you. How have you seen God show His love for you and other people?”
With
the title “How God Loves Us,” compile all their responses on a large writing
surface.
Using
the list they have compiled, have the students create thank you notes to God
expressing their gratitude for the different ways He shows His love for us.
Have a number of different types of materials available (construction
paper, magazines, markers, crayons, glitter, etc.) with which student’s can
make their cards. Encourage them to be as creative as possible.
Explain
to parents what you have discussed and have students take their cards and
list home so that they can include the contents in their daily prayers or
at the meal table after the usual prayers.
Activity:
Love helps things grow. You may want to do this as a separate session.
Say,
“To help us learn more about love we are going to do a little experiment”
Find some easy care plants. You can find them at your local nursery, plant
shop, or sometimes grocery store. Purchase enough so that each child can have
his or her own plant.
Say,
“Each of us is going to get a plant for us to take care of.” Have students
decorate their pot, put dirt in it, and insert their plant. Say, “Each of
us has been given a plant. We have the chance to take care of it and help
it grow, or neglect it, hurt it and let it die. What are some things we need
to do to take care of our plant and make sure it doesn’t die? [Water it, make
sure it gets the right amount of sun, etc.] At the end of our study unit we
will take another look at our plants and see how we did.”
Depending
on your program you may want to have students take their plants home with
them along with a note explaining to parents what you are trying to do, or
you may want to find a special place to keep the plants where the students
can come and take care of their plant. Make sure students understand that
this is their responsibility and tell parents that it is ok if the plant dies.
If the child is interested, get him or her a replacement plant so that he
or she can try harder.
Ages
10-12
B:
Introduction: Two worlds, one planet
Break
students up into groups of 2 or 3.
Have
various types of materials available (current event magazines, construction
paper, glue/tape, markers, leaves, flowers, etc.).Give each group a medium-sized
box that is open on one side. Each group is to decorate the outside of the
box with pictures and symbols that show a world without love, and the inside
with pictures and symbols that show love in the world.
After
the groups are finished, have them share their boxes, explaining how their
box shows a world with and without love.
Say,
“For the next (period of time of program) we are going to be talking and learning
about all the persons with whom we have special relationships and how our
relationships with them not only effect choices we make in our life, but also
the state of the world itself. On the outside of your boxes you showed a world
without love. These are the things we see a lot on the news and hear people
talking about most of the time. On the inside of the box you showed love in
the world. Very often we don’t see or hear about these things too much. For
some reason, it is harder for us to see them even though they are all around
us. Hopefully over the next (period of time of program) we will learn how
not only to notice love in the world, but add to it.”
Questions
to Discuss
Ask,
“Looking at your boxes, choose one picture from the outside and one picture
from the inside. What kind of relationship does each picture show?
Who or what is relating to each other?” Ask for volunteers. When a
few people have volunteered ask, “Now think of your own life. Who are some
people that effect how we see and treat the world and everyone in it? [God,
teachers, parents, friends, people we see on the street, etc.]” If they haven’t
mentioned God yet, ask “How do you think having a relationship with God effects
how we see and treat the world? [If you have a relationship with God you see
Him acting in the world. You understand that it is His world that we are supposed
to be taking care of.]
Discussion:
The Loving God of the New and Old Testaments
Have
someone look up and read 1 John 4: 16-19. Ask, “What do you think St. John
means? [God is more loving than anyone else. God teaches us how to love. God
made us, loves us, and therefore wants us to love Him and each other. Etc.]
Now look inside your boxes. Are there any pictures there that show how God
loves us? If so, how do they show that?”
Ask,
“If I gave someone a Liturgy Book who could find the part in the Divine Liturgy
called the anaphora?” If no one can, ask, “Who can find the part when we sing,
‘A mercy of peace. A sacrifice of praise’?” Once someone has found it say,
“ During the priest’s prayer that starts ‘It is meet and right to hymn Thee’
there is a list of descriptions about God. What does it say God is? [Ineffable,
inconceivable, invisible, incomprehensible, ever-existing and eternally the
same.] Briefly go over the definition for each.
Say,
“Very often, even though we only believe in one God, who we say in the Liturgy
is ‘eternally the same’ and therefore doesn’t change, people say things like
God is harsh in the Old Testament and forgiving in the New Testament.”
Debate:
The Old Testament and New Testment: Did God Change?
For
this activity students will need a bible, pad and pen.
Divide
participants into two groups. Tell participants that they are going to have
a debate. You are going to give them both a set of texts from the Bible: some
from Old Testament before Jesus was born; and some from the New Testament.
One group will argue that, based on the texts, the Old and New Testaments
talk about the same loving God, and the other group will argue that God is
harsh in the Old Testament and forgiving in the New Testament.
As
preparation for the debate, each person in a group will read one or two of
the texts and explain to the group how it supports their point of view. One
person is chosen from each group to speak for the group. Teams can use knowledge
of other biblical accounts to help their case
The teams will
flip a coin to see who goes first. The teacher will present the question.
The first team will present, the second team will respond, the first team
will respond to that, and the second team will then finish. When both speakers
are done, they will go back to their group for five minutes to come up with
short concluding remarks.
At the end, discuss
what they personally believe. Ask, “According to some of the texts, especially
in the Old Testament, it sounds like God only loves people who do what He
says. Do you think this is true? Why or why not?”
Discuss how a loving
God must be both forgiving as well as firm and disciplining. You may wish to
make the analogy that our parents who love us, are sometimes very firm with
us, so that we will understand that what they are saying is very important.
You may also want to discuss how God never leaves us. Because He loves us we
can talk to Him at any time. Ask, “When are sometimes we can talk to God? [Always,
when we need help, or are lonely or thankful.]
Genesis
6:5-14; Genesis 11: 1-9; Genesis 22: 1-14; Exodus 20:1-17, Psalm 5, Proverbs
3:11-12
Matthew
22: 34-40, Mark 11: 12-26, Luke 6:27-36, Luke 6: 37-42, John 8:3-11, John
12:47
Activity:
Pet Rocks You may wish to do this as a separate session.
Say,
“To help us learn more about love we are going to do a little experiment”
Take the students outside to find a “pet rock” for themselves. Tell them
the only requirement is that they must be able to carry it with one hand.
Say,
“Each of us is going to get a pet rock for us to take care of.” Have students
decorate their rock using paint, markers, glue, construction paper, etc. and
give it a name. Have students share their pets with the rest of the group.
Say, “Each of us now has our own little creature to take care of. Think about
what your pet needs: what kind of environment does it need?, what does it
eat and drink and how much?.” Share with students about your “pet”.
Say, “For the next
[period of program] we are going to need to take care of our ‘pet.’ We have
the chance to take care of it and help it grow, or neglect it, hurt it and let
it die.”
Pet
Rock Journals: For the course of this study unit have participants keep journals
that explain how they cared for their rock. Everyone (including yourself)
is to keep a journal each day listing things like how often they fed it and
gave it what it needs, took it to do the things it likes to do, corrected
it if it misbehaved, etc. Remind them that this is supposed to be fun. It
can even be a little silly. Tell them you will be checking their journals
each session and sharing with the class some of the funnier entries.
On
the first page or cover of their journals have students list their “pet’s”
name, needs, and things it likes to do.
Depending
on your program you may want to have students take their pets home with them
along with a note explaining to parents what you are trying to do, or you
may want to find a special place to keep them where the students can come
and take care of them. Make sure students understand that this is their responsibility
and tell parents that it is ok if they lose the rock. If the child is interested,
get him or her a replacement so that he or she can try harder.
Session
Conclusion
Say,
“Our God is the God of love. He is the One who shows us what it means to really
love someone. He loves us enough to care for us and give us everything we need,
even when we don’t always do what we should. He also loves us enough to give
us rules by which to live our life so that we don’t hurt others or ourselves.
He even loves us enough to discipline us when we think we know better than He
does. Starting today let’s look harder to see God’s love in our lives and thank
Him for all that He has done and continues to do for us. Everyday during your
prayers, try to remember one way He showed His love for you and thank Him for
being in your life.”
The
Story of the Prodigal (Wasteful) Son
Jesus
always taught people about our relationship with God. One day He told a story
that teaches us how much God, the Father, loves us even when we have done
something wrong.
There
was a man who had two sons. One day the younger son said to his father: “Father,
give me my share of all your belongings.” He meant that he wanted his father
to give him then and there all the money that he was to receive after his
father’s death. This was a very rude and presumptious thing for the son to
say, but his father, nevertheless, did as he was asked.
A few days later
the younger son took the money his father had given to him and left his father
and brother. He left his happy home, and went into a strange country far away.
There, he made new friends and tried to have a very good time. The friends
he chose didn’t really care about him, but taught him to do many bad and evil
things. He lived there for a long time, trying to enjoy himself by doing all
these wicked things. Finally, all the money that he had received from his
father was spent.
When his new friends
say that he had no more money, they didn’t want to have anything to do with
him. They were not really good friends, because a good friend is someone who
likes you even if you don’t give them anything. Now the young man found himself
alone, hungry, without friends, and without money. He began to look for work,
but the only job he could find was watching over a herd of pigs in muddy fields.
It was not a very good job. In fact, it didn’t pay enough for him to buy food
for himself. He had to eat all the messy pig food just to stay alive!
Then, one day,
the young man said to himself: “Here I am, hungry and unhappy. In my father’s
house, there are many servants who work for him and have plenty to eat. I
have behaved so badly that I am not worthy to be me father’s son any more.
Maybe, if I ask him, he will let me come back to become one of his servants.
This is better than watching and eating with these pigs!”
He got up right
away and started on his journey home, but he had to walk because he had no
donkey to ride. He was dressed in his worn-out clothes, feeling very hungry
and miserable, and thinking all the way how he would ask for forgiveness from
his good father.
He was still a
long way off from his home when his father saw him. The father felt so sorry
for his son that he ran out to meet him. He hugged him and took him home.
The son said: “Father, I have behaved too badly to be called your son!”
But the father didn’t scold his son for all the bad things he had done,
but rather said to one of the servants, “Bring the best clothes for my son.
Put a ring on his finger, and shoes on his feet. Prepare the very best dinner
for us. We shall have a feast and be happy, because my son who was lost is
found again.”
When the older
son came back from the fields, he heard music and dancing in the house. He
called one of the servants and asked him what had happened. He learned that
they were feasting because his younger brother had returned home. This made
him very angry. He thought; Had not the younger brother behaved badly and
left his father’s house; while he, the older brother, had stayed at home like
a good son to do all the work? But when the father heard that the older son
did not want to join them, he came to him and said, “My son, you have always
been with me. All I have is yours. But today we are glad because your brother
was like one dead, and he is alive again; He was like one lost and he is found
again.”
Remember
Jesus told this story to help us understand how God loves us, even when we
do bad things.
Questions:
1.
What was the bad thing the younger son did? [Demanded money that wasn’t his,
left his father, and went and wasted the money on wicked things.]
2.
How did the father react? [Seeing that his son understood how badly he behaved
and that he would think twice before he would do this again, He didn’t even
scold him, but rather hugged him, gave him new clothes, and had the entire house
celebrate his son’s return.]
3.
What does this tell us about how God loves us? [Even when we make bigmistakes
we can always come back to Him and He’ll run to meet us and welcome us back.
Many times God is more loving than we might be.]