Session 4: Being a Real Friend
Objectives:
By the end of this session participants should be able to . . .
1. list descriptions of true friendship
2. compare true friends to people who just pretend to be our friends
3. recall biblical sayings related to friendship
4. identify traits (not physical) that they want in their friends
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Procedure:
A:Introduction
Print F-R-I-E-N-D-S verticle on a large writing surface. Make the letters large enough and leave room between them for students to write two lines. For each letter, have students think of words or phrases that they think describe a good friend. [Fun to be with it, Reasonable, Interested in me, Easy to talk to, Doesn’t lie, Sensitive] Let students write their suggestions next to the letters.
Then have students brainstorm words or phrases that describe bad friendships.[Fights a lot, Rude, Ignores me, Expects too much, Nasty to people, Doesn’t listen, Sneaky] Have members write these suggestions underneath the others. Compare the two lists.B: Introduction: Recipe of Friendship
Break students into groups of 4 or 5. Tell students that they will be creating a “recipe of friendship.” Hand out a copies of a basic recipe (chocolate cake, sugar cookies, etc.) or write it out on a large surface. Say, “Using a recipe format like this one, each group is to create a recipe for friendship.”
You may wish to brainstorm and list all the words the group can think of that relate to friendship. [Loving, caring, honest, trust, support, etc.] Encourage groups to be creative. When everyone is finished have each group present their recipe and why they chose the “ingredients” they included.
A&B Discussion: Friends in the Bible
“Who are some people in the Bible who were friends? [Jesus and the apostles; Jesus and Lazarus; Paul, Timothy and Barnabus; King David and Jonathan; etc.] The Bible has a lot to say about friends and friendship. Jesus had friends all kinds of friends. He had friends who betrayed Him, like Judas, friends who disowned Him, like Peter, and friends, like the myrrhbearing women, that stayed with Him even when He was hanging from the cross, died, and was buried.
“What kind of friend do you think Jesus was?” [He forgave everyone who betrayed, disowned, or was bad to Him; He was always there when people needed Him; He challenged people to be the best they could be. He shared His life with people. He was always honest. Etc.]
A & B Activity: Looking for Friends